Wednesday, May 18, 2005 ;
4:26 PM
If we got into a car accident, should we get down and scold each other for negligence in driving, or should we sit down and talk how we are going to repair the damage?
If a student had answered a question wrongly, should we take out a cane and wack him for his stupidity, or we take the time and heart to help the student understand his mistake?
If we lost out on a competition, should we get ourselves worked up and blame everyone for poor play, or we evaluate our standards and train ourselves to be stronger?
If you are accused of wrongdoing, should we fight back and claim innocence regardless of other people, or stand up and admit that you are indeed in the wrong and you would repent?
If the world should one day crumbles upon you, do you kneel down and cry for the bad turn of events, or straighten up to face the obstacles?
If the road ahead should be bumpy and rocky, should we wait till the rain erodes it flat, or thrust ahead with resilience?
If we are to search back into the past to find someone to be responsible for the events today, would it guarantee that everything will be solved right after that? Should we not forgive and forget, and start everything anew?
The solution is always there right in front of us, it is only a matter of choosing the perception that we look it at, looking at things negatively will prolong the healing process, but to look at it from the bright side, all will end well if everyone come to terms to reality.
The hope to reach a resolution is always right in front us. If we are to stay at this point to get anyone to be found guilty or to find back the comfort you once knew, the answer will not wait for you at the end. It will always be farther away, and the road will be turning up with more and more obstacles with every delay. So we should not ever stop at where we are but to continue forward and correct our mistakes along the way. Bliss is always waiting for us at the end to claim it, but we had to endure hardships to deserve it.
This is dedicated to everyone out there who need a break and to start to see things differently. And to me, who had a very hard day today, because i had hurt people, made people worried, and have people who dun even care for me. I can continue to look at things differently but sooner or later i could break, because there is no one who shared my thoughts, who shared my feelings, who understood the real meaning behind all i had done...
light my way ♥